Make a little space
1. Ask whether now is a good time. Attention is easier to offer when both people can choose the moment. “Would you like to talk?” leaves room for a yes, a no, or a later.
2. Put one distraction aside. You might silence your own phone or turn away from a screen, if doing so is practical. Do not demand that someone else do the same.
Let the other person lead
3. Ask an open question. “What was the interesting part?” can invite a fuller answer than a rapid series of guesses. Let silence be part of the conversation.
4. Check what you heard. Try “Have I understood that correctly?” rather than assuming you know how someone feels. People can correct your understanding in their own words.
Finish thoughtfully
5. Ask what would be useful. Someone may want company, an idea, practical help, or simply to finish a sentence. Accept their answer, including a wish for space.
These are everyday conversation suggestions, not therapy or a promise to repair a relationship. Your own boundaries matter too. You can offer attention without agreeing to do everything asked of you.
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